Divorce Mediation Attorney in Brooklyn

A Constructive Path Through Divorce

Divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you are worried about conflict, cost, and what will happen to your children and finances. Many couples want a way to resolve these questions without a prolonged fight in court. Mediation offers a more controlled, private way to reach agreements that work in real life.

At Attorney Scott Orgel and Attorney Ken Eiges, Partners at Ballon Stoll P.C., we guide clients who choose mediation as part of a New York divorce. Our firm focuses on family and matrimonial law, and our attorneys have more than 60 years of collective experience helping people end marriages with clarity and dignity. We have resolved over 3,000 divorce matters, so we understand the range of issues and emotions that can arise.

If you are thinking about working with a divorce mediation attorney, we can walk you through your options, explain how mediation fits into a New York divorce, and help you decide if it is the right approach for your situation.

Need guidance from a divorce mediation lawyer? Schedule your consultation online or call us at (347) 848-1850 to discuss your case and options.

Why Work With Our Mediation Team

When you choose a divorce mediation lawyer to guide you through mediation, you are not only hiring legal knowledge. You are choosing who will help you make some of the most important decisions about your future. Our firm concentrates on family and matrimonial matters in New York, so every day we are working with clients who face similar questions to the ones you are now facing.

Our divorce mediation attorneys bring more than six decades of combined experience in divorce and family law, and we have resolved thousands of divorce cases of varying complexity. This history matters in mediation because it allows us to anticipate common sticking points, identify potential long-term consequences, and help you set realistic goals from the start. We work with you to build a strategy that takes into account your financial picture, your children, and your priorities.

We know many people worry about being passed from person to person in a law office. At Attorney Scott Orgel and Attorney Ken Eiges, Partners at Ballon Stoll P.C., clients work directly with the attorney who is responsible for their case. That attorney remains accessible, answers your questions, and prepares you for each stage of the mediation process. Our commitment to clear communication means you understand what is happening, why it is happening, and what decisions are coming next.

Recognition from organizations such as Super Lawyers and an AV Rating by Martindale Hubbell reflect our professional standing in the legal community. These acknowledgments underscore our focus on careful preparation, thoughtful advocacy, and client service. In mediation, those qualities help keep discussions productive and focused on practical solutions instead of unnecessary conflict.

How Divorce Mediation Works In New York

Many people hear the term mediation but are not sure how it fits into a New York divorce. Mediation is a structured process in which you and your spouse work with a neutral mediator to discuss and resolve the issues that must be addressed before a divorce can be finalized. Each of you may also consult with your own attorney, such as a divorce mediation lawyer, who provides independent legal advice and helps you prepare.

In New York, mediation can be used before a case is filed or after a divorce has already been started in court. For residents of Brooklyn, uncontested divorce papers and settlement agreements are typically submitted to the Supreme Court of the State of New York, County of Kings, for review and entry of a judgment. Agreements reached in mediation can usually be incorporated into those court filings, subject to legal requirements and judicial review.

The process often begins with an initial consultation where we discuss your goals, concerns, and basic background. If mediation appears appropriate, there is usually an information-gathering stage. During this stage, you and your spouse collect and exchange financial information and think carefully about your children’s needs and schedules. We help our clients organize this information and understand how New York law views topics like equitable distribution and child support so they can negotiate from an informed position.

Mediation sessions are usually scheduled in blocks of time. During each session, you and your spouse address specific topics, sometimes together and sometimes privately with the mediator, depending on how the process is structured. As your mediation counsel, we can help you prepare for each session, evaluate proposals, and consider the long-term impact of suggested terms.

If you reach an agreement on all required issues, the understanding is typically written as a settlement agreement. That agreement can then be submitted to the court as part of your uncontested divorce packet. If you only reach agreement on some issues, those points may still narrow what remains for the court to decide. Not every mediation results in a full settlement, and we believe in giving clients a realistic picture of both the potential benefits and the limits of the process.

Issues We Commonly Resolve In Mediation

Most people considering mediation want to know whether their particular concerns can actually be handled in that setting. In our experience, many of the central decisions in a New York divorce can be addressed through mediation when both spouses participate in good faith. We use our background in numerous divorce matters to help clients think through not only the legal questions but also the practical side of living with an agreement.

For families in Brooklyn and elsewhere in the city, arrangements often need to reflect busy work schedules, commuting on public transportation, and the realities of living in apartments, co-ops, or rented homes. Child-related decisions may need to account for school locations, after-school care, and travel between neighborhoods. Financial questions can involve everything from rent-stabilized leases and shared mortgages to retirement accounts and small businesses.

Examples of issues that can often be addressed in mediation include:

• Parenting schedules and decision-making responsibilities for children, including holidays and school breaks.
• Child support arrangements that are consistent with New York guidelines and your children’s needs.
• Spousal maintenance, sometimes called alimony, is determined based on statutory factors.
• Division of property, such as homes, retirement accounts, investments, and personal belongings, through equitable distribution.
• Responsibility for debts, such as credit cards, personal loans, or tax obligations, accumulated during the marriage.

Our goal is to help you think through how these decisions will work day to day. Because we have handled more than 3,000 divorces, we have seen many different arrangements and can point out practical considerations that might otherwise be overlooked.

Is Mediation Right For Your Divorce?

Mediation is not the best path for every couple, but it can be a constructive option for many. It tends to work best when both spouses are willing to share information, listen, and try to find common ground, even if they do not agree on every detail at the start. Many parents in Brooklyn also appreciate that mediation can reduce open conflict, which may help children adjust to new routines.

At the same time, we understand that power imbalances and strong personalities can make you worry about being pressured into terms that are not fair. When you work with a divorce mediation lawyer from our firm, you have someone whose role is to advise you, help you prepare, and support you in evaluating proposals. We talk with you about your priorities, identify areas where you may have room to compromise, and highlight points where it may be important to stand firm.

Our approach is to seek collaborative resolutions whenever possible. We see mediation as part of a broader strategy, not as the only option. If it becomes clear that meaningful progress is no longer being made, we discuss your alternatives, which may include continuing negotiations in a different format or asking the court to decide certain issues. This strategic partnership model allows you to explore mediation without feeling that you are locked into it, regardless of how it develops.

Many couples who live in Brooklyn or nearby parts of the city have ongoing ties through children, shared communities, or long-standing social circles. For them, preserving a workable relationship after the divorce is important, and mediation can support that goal. If you are unsure whether this path fits your circumstances, a conversation with our divorce mediation attorneys can help you weigh the advantages and challenges based on your specific situation.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is divorce mediation a good fit for my situation?

Mediation can be helpful when both spouses are willing to talk, share information, and consider compromise. It may not be appropriate in every case, particularly where there is a serious safety or coercion concern. We discuss your specific circumstances and help you evaluate whether mediation is a realistic and safe option.

Will I still need my own attorney during mediation?

Many people find it useful to have their own attorney during mediation. The mediator is neutral and cannot give you individual legal advice. Our role as your counsel is to explain your rights, help you prepare, review proposals with you, and make sure you understand the implications before you agree.

How long does divorce mediation usually take in New York?

The length of mediation varies, but many couples complete the process over several sessions scheduled across weeks or a few months. Timing depends on the number of issues, how much information must be gathered, and how quickly spouses reach an agreement. We talk with you about these factors so you have a realistic expectation.

What if my spouse is more assertive than I am?

You can still consider mediation if your spouse tends to be more outspoken. With your own attorney, you have someone who helps you prepare, clarify your goals, and evaluate proposals. We work with you to identify areas of concern, support you during negotiations, and discuss other options if you feel pressured or unsafe.

Can your firm handle my mediation if I live in Brooklyn?

Yes, our firm assists clients who live in Brooklyn and other parts of New York City with mediation as part of their divorce. We are familiar with how mediated agreements are submitted to the Supreme Court of the State of New York, County of Kings, and we can advise you on the process from initial planning through court filings.

What To Expect When You Contact Us

Reaching out to a law firm can feel like a significant step. We want you to know what to expect when you contact Attorney Scott Orgel and Attorney Ken Eiges, Partners at Ballon Stoll P.C. about mediation for your divorce. When you call us, you will have the opportunity to speak with someone who can take preliminary information and arrange a time for you to talk directly with a divorce mediation attorney.

During an initial consultation, we typically discuss your family situation, your main concerns, and what you hope to accomplish. We explain how mediation works in New York, how our role as your counsel fits with the work of a mediator, and what options might be available to you. You will have the chance to ask questions so you can understand the process and whether it aligns with your goals.

If you choose to work with us, the attorney you meet with will be the person who guides your strategy going forward. Our firm serves clients in Brooklyn and throughout New York City, and we strive to accommodate work schedules and family obligations when setting meetings. Throughout the matter, we focus on clear communication so that you are not left wondering about the status of your case or the next step.

Schedule your consultation online or call us at (347) 848-1850 to speak with a trusted divorce mediation attorney about your legal options.