Collaborative Divorce

Helpful Guidance from a New York Divorce Lawyer

In a collaborative divorce, both parties officially agree not to go to court but rather to seek a negotiated agreement regarding the terms of their divorce. Each side is represented by a New York divorce lawyer who can provide legal advice and assist in negotiations and pursuing a just outcome. A spirit of cooperation is stressed, which can not only help both parties save time and expense but also make the process less emotionally stressful. If there are children involved, it can also be of immense benefit in that it protects them from lengthy and acrimonious conflict which can destroy their sense of family security.

Part of the collaborative process includes both parties agreeing to disclose all relevant financial information and documents, to not take advantages of any mistakes by the other side and to respect each others' priorities. It can involve four-way conferences and negotiation and, if needed, the input of professionals such as accountants and financial planners. When a mutually agreeable resolution is achieved, both parties are more likely to uphold the terms of the agreement and thus avoid the need for spousal or child support enforcement or similar actions.

Divorce Mediation in New York

Mediation is one of the most effective approaches to a collaborative approach, and also one of the most common. In fact, the Collaborative Family Law Center of the New York State Unified Court System offers free divorce mediation services – for those who meet certain eligibility requirements. With this free service, spouses may receive up to 4 to 6 sessions with program mediators. Such sessions are held at the Collaborative Family Law Center in Manhattan and will last 90 minutes each.

With divorce mediation, both spouses must agree to take this approach. They will meet with a neutral party, a mediator, who will work to facilitate communication between the spouses so they can reach their own agreement regarding any issues they must resolve in relation to their divorce. This may include custody, property division, the division of assets, spousal support and child support. The mediator does not have the authority to make these decisions for the spouses but rather tries to help them work together.

Once all decisions are agreed upon, a written agreement can be drawn up and then incorporated into an Order or Judgment of Divorce. Only a court order or judgment makes the divorce final.

Is a collaborative approach right for me?

A collaborative divorce offers a number of advantages. It can significantly reduce the length of time for a divorce to be finalized and can make it far less expensive. Spouses may also experience more freedom when it comes to working out custody, support and property division agreements, as they know more than anyone else what may work for their family.

In spite of these advantages, mediation or another collaborative approach may not be the best solution for everyone. A lawyer who is experienced with collaborative and contested divorce can offer insight on how your unique situation may be impacted by each approach. Considering all of your options is essential when you are considering a life-changing matter like a divorce.

Legal Representation in a Collaborative Divorce

When you are confronted with the task of determining such vital issues as asset division, debt division, child custody, visitation, child support and spousal support, we can help. With over 30 years in practice, the team at Eiges & Orgel, PLLC has the expertise to tactfully address your negotiations and identify solutions which may not otherwise be apparent. A collaborative divorce does not involve a public record of the details of your divorce and allows you much more input into the outcome of issues regarding your children and finances.

Contact a New York divorce lawyer for help addressing your divorce in a respectful and efficient manner.