The divorce process is not only about the law. It involves the emotional and financial toll that the client must bear. Consistent with our approach we tailor the divorce process for our client. As a trained mediator Kenneth Eiges might suggest mediation as one way to resolve the issues surrounding a divorce. An attorney or non-attorney that only handles mediation may try to force the process on a couple even if the process may not be appropriate for the couple. Kenneth Eiges stated "Mediation is appropriate where both parties are motivated to resolve their divorce in a reasonable way."

The couple must be committed to the process. Practitioners of mediation feel that they can use their skills to let the couples negotiate a fair resolution. We feel that couples often negotiate an unfair agreement. There is often a power imbalance which cannot be corrected. If that is the situation we would discourage mediation. A collaborative divorce where each party has his or her own lawyer whose goal is an amicable divorce might work better. In those cases where there is too much animosity, litigation might be the only way to obtain resolution of the divorce. We are experienced in mediation, collaborative divorce and litigation and will help you choose the process which will work best for you.